

A modern day fairy tale, or a lesson for modern times?





Beulah Bondi (who played George Bailey's mother from It's A Wonderful Life) has a great supporting role as Mrs. Oliver, the head of the adoption agency who has doubts about the couple at first, but then grows to care a great deal for them. The ending is heart-wrenching. Will they stay together? Will they stop talking about how it's over?

I don't know because Santa dropped off early Christmas presents at the front door and my son screamed and hollered until I paused the movie and came down to see. His sisters aren't here so he had sole rights to seeing which packages were for who. Before I went back upstairs to finish the movie I had to remind him not to change all the names to "Brosden".
And just as the movie finished, a real surprise, I heard him calling again, albeit somewhat muffled. As I descended, each time my foot touched a step I felt my heart touched by a thought. Love is absolutely the most wonderful, powerful and terrific emotion we have. Yet it can also be the most elusive. How in the world do you make it last? How do you know when someone really loves you? How..........
And there it was.


I hope your holidays are wonderful, powerful and terrific. I hope they're filled with love.
2 comments:
How do you make love stay? We grow through its ebb and wane. At its lowest point, we toughen up and swear to never love again. And yet we do again and again. It is human nature to want a source of belonging. But making love stay is something you can’t do. It either does or doesn’t. You have to love yourself first and find the right fit; be deeply kind to one another other; stay mutually – and equally - interested in each other other’s goals and desires; and authentically like one another for who s/he is and who s/he is becoming. Children are a deeper source of love because they are part of us and we love them to the depths that we love ourselves. When other types of love fail, it is our children who make us believe that love is real.
Brilliant!
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